Confidence Kept or Harmful Secret? - Opinion

 Just a little ramble that entered my head.



Just what is the difference between keeping confidence or keeping a harmful secret? My opinion is in the words themselves. A secret is bad when it causes harm. However different people have different concepts on what is harmful, which causes no end of confusion.


All I can do is share my go by.
If it is not my story it is not mine to share


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